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Sunday, January 25, 2009

2:14 AM

I know it's quite late for me to blog.
But right now i just felt i have to pen down my thoughts.

This is not about me.
It's about my sister.

I was waken up to her pissed voice scolding down her phone.
And i was pretty pissed myself.
Im damn too tired to care,
but i couldnt help eavesdropping.
(Anyway, i couldnt drown out her voice, it was a tad too loud)

And so it seems that my dearest sister is fighting with her "love".
Over some comment some idiotic girl wrote on my sis's idiotic bf's TAG profile.
So i waited till my sis put down her call, and being the concerned lil' sister, i asked her what was that about.
She started crying... and showed me the comments that bitch gave.
The comments went something like... "You were the best thing that happened in my life... and i knew i loved you..."
(snippets of it,by the way.)
Who the hell would comment like that, if she or he knows that this particular person has a gf/bf???
And he had the cheek to tell her to ignore this girl.
My god... it's obvious he is still in contact with his past "scandals"...
Does he not care how my sister feels?

Easy said, i wasnt really pissed at the "unfortunately-idiotic" girl.
In fact i was not very happy with my sister's "bf".
Firstly, i dont like him.
Even though i have not met him yet, i dont have a good feeling about this one.
I dont know.. maybe the fact that he's too young for my sister plays a part.
But i know... i know age doesnt matter when it comes to love.
I mean, IF she ends up getting hitched to this guy, it's fine by me.
It's her fate right?
But now, NOW, i dont like him.
U guys will be thinking im really being unfair to my sister...
"Give her a chance..."
Right??

I did.

I gave her that chance weeks ago.
When i first heard that she got together with this BOY, even before really knowing him.
That's how naive my sister is.
But, it's her life, true?
So i kept aside my comments and let her be happy.

Which, now, comes to this....
SHE IS NOT HAPPY.
She was way much more happier before she met this guy.
She smiled more, she ATE more (that didnt stop, mind you...), she was more easy-going...
She had no worries.

The changes began...
She cries more often...
She woke up early everytime to meet him.. and ended up getting ditched at the last minute.

I shut my mouth when that happens.
Cuz i honestly didnt want to hurt my sister.

Just now was a good enough reason to tell her my opinions.
And i told her the truth.
Told her i dont like this particular guy.
I had no problems with her other past relationships...
But this... this i dont like.
"His maturity level is still down at his ankles", i said.

I didnt think she liked what i had to say..
Which was right.
Whatever i told her was what i really honestly thought was best for her..
It's up to her whether to accept it or not.
I've always been honest with what i say when it comes to BGRs, especially to her.
I feel that i have to speak my mind about her relationships.
I want her to be happy...
She had been hurt so many times by so many guys, that i cant let her go on and get fooled.
Again, she did it.

If this guy honestly loves her, like what he said when she asked during the conversation, then he should be willing to change and give her his utmost attention.
He himself is still naive.
Friends are much more prioritised than my sister.
Last minute changes to their plans...
Even on my sister's birthday, he cancelled their plan!!
"Family problem", he said.
So why didnt he met my sister after that??
Why cant he try to escape for awhile to see my sister?
What other 'old school' reasons he have up his sleeve to give my sister?
-_-'

My sister deserves to be happy.
I strongly believe this guy cant make her happy.

"If one truly loves the other, then one has to TRY and change his ways."

True?

Even if he cant, he has to try.
Not only for my sister, but for THEIR future.

I hope my sister will learnt soon.
*Cross fingers*

~L0ves

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name : yunurhaiza
alias : yun, yunnie
age : I've turned a year older on 3rd Mar! :p)

I am:
Simple-minded
Straight-forward
Open-minded
Easy to talk to
Aint a ~~bitch~~, neva wanna be.

People say, "I AM WHO I AM" For me, i am who people make me believe i am. Life makes us become who we are today, yesterday & tomorrow. LIfe aint perfect, and it's nt always about us. Take a look around... Learning from mistakes brings us to the ground we're standing on. Without tasting d different tastes of life, we dun call it living. We're nt born PERFECT, yet we are being taught on HOW to be perfect. Dat's wat GOD is doing. HE teach. My perspective on LIFE: LIve to learn, from mistakes we do. Be it big or small. Appreciate those dat did us good. Appreciate the chance given, to LIVE.

Yearning for...
♥| ~~a ReaL h0Liday~~..
♥| a whoLe new Wardrobe!
♥| the feeLing of getting used to wearing kiLLer hiGh heeLs!! ;P
♥| ~~a maKeover..~~
♥| a suzuki swift! or.. maybe.. a Picanto?? *sigh*
♥| a Life wif no Pr0bLem0... of cuz dat's nt gonna happen.. :(
♥| my own Baby.. hee3

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